SOME MORE ZEN STORIES
SOME MORE
ZEN STORIES
"Maybe"
There was an old farmer who had
worked hard for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news,
his neighbors came to visit. "Such bad luck," they said.
"Maybe," the farmer replied.
The next
morning the horse returned, bringing with it three wild horses. "How
wonderful," the neighbors said.
"Maybe,"
replied the old man.
The
following day when the farmer’s son tried to ride one of the untamed horses he
was thrown and his leg was broken. The neighbors again came to offer their
sympathy.
"Maybe,"
answered the farmer.
The day
after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army.
Seeing that the son's leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors
congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out.
"Maybe,"
said the farmer.
How non-judgmental
the farmer was. Unfortunately, we are used to divide events in our life into
"good" or "bad." We judge everything we go through and give
it a certain label.
We are
basically like the neighbors who visit the farmer in that we don't fully
understand the notion of interdependence. In fact, the farmer demonstrates the
reality of this life. All is interconnected, there is no good or bad.
Life is a
set of different cycles that occur at different stages in our life. However,
it's not about the incident that takes places, it's about our perception of it.
Like the farmer, we should practice non-judgment, and refrain from labeling
events.
"Everything changes"
There once lived a king who was
continuously torn between happiness and misery. The smallest things could make
upset him one way of another, so happiness easily turned into disappointment.
One day
the king sent for a wise man who was reputed for being enlightened. The king
said to him, "I want to be like you. Can you bring me something that gives
balance in my life? I will pay whatever price you like." The wise man
replied, "I may be able to help you, but the price is so great that not
even your kingdom would be enough payment for it. Therefore I will give it to
you as a gift, if you will honor it." The king gave his assurances, and
the wise man left.
A few
weeks later the wise man returned, and handed the king a box. The king opened
the box, and found a simple gold ring inside. The inscription on the ring read,
"Everything changes." "What is the meaning of this?" the
king asked. The wise man replied, "Wear this ring always. Whatever
happens, before you call it good or bad, touch the ring and read the
inscription. That way, you will always be at peace.
Like the
king, we are moved by the smallest things. The silliest event, or person, can make
us miserable. However, the moment we realize that everything changes, we see
life differently. We won't be as attached to the results. Moreover, our
reaction will be less intense, and more logical.
"Is that so?"
The Zen master Hakuin was praised
by his neighbors as one living a wholesome life. A beautiful Japanese girl
whose parents owned a food store lived near him. One day the parents discovered
the girl was pregnant. She would not confess who the father was, but finally she
named Hakuin.
In great
anger the parents went to the master. "Is that so?" was all he would
say. When the child was born, the parents brought it to the Hakuin, who now was
viewed as an outcast by the village. They demanded that he take care of the
child since it was his responsibility. "Is that so?" Hakuin said as
he accepted the child.
A year
later the girl told her parents the truth that the real father of the child was
a young man who worked in the market, and not Hakuin. The parents went to
Hakuin to ask his forgiveness, and to get the child back. In yielding the child
all Hakuin said was: "Is that so?"
We rarely
accept what happens with us but fight it one way or another. Sometimes, we are
faced with responsibilities we didn't plan for. Hakuin shows us the importance
of accepting responsibilities as part of life. Once we realize that, things
will inevitably change.
It
doesn't matter what our reputation is, or what others think of us. We are the
only ones who truly know ourselves, and the world won't matter as much once we
acknowledge our worth.