CHANGE
CHANGE
IS HERE TO STAY
Acorns on the ground.
Just yesterday, leaves were green.
And that is the Way.
We talk about the Zen concept of
living in the moment, about being aware of right now. Is that notion a
limitation, a restriction? Does living now mean being stuck in the present, and
nothing will ever be different?
Not
at all. Change is unavoidable.
The
weather changes. Technology changes. Politics change. In a world of constant
change, there is little we can be sure of.
In
a publishing company I once worked, the treasurer had a favorite saying. “There
are three things in life that are certain: death, taxes, and an IOU in petty
cash from Jack.”
Our
lives change, and will eventually go away. But why fear the close of life? Death is part of the cycle.
Why
fear gray hair? Or no hair at all? Why fear wrinkles?
We may
disagree with something new and unforeseen, but more often than not we can do nothing
other than become frustrated.
Lao
Tzu said, “If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try
to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot
achieve.”
We know
things change, yet too often we do not want to let go of what is. Sometimes we
actively try to prevent change. Sometimes such an effort can be praiseworthy,
but it is usually futile.
Especially
when it comes to politics.
That
doesn’t mean we stagnate and do nothing, but it does mean we must realize what
we are doing, and how it may end.
Ignoring
change will not cause it to cease.
Change
has always been happening. It is inevitable.
As you
learn, your thoughts change. As your thoughts change, your beliefs and
behaviors change.
We try to
stave off something unpleasant. Everyone fights against ageing, but whether we
like it or not, the cells of our bodies are different from day to day.
You may
be able to delay the inevitable, but you cannot make it go away. You cannot
deny the natural laws of the universe, or deceive nature.
You can,
however, modify your behavior and your thinking.
Change is
the truth of reality. When we cannot or will not accept this truth, we become
frustrated.
However,
everybody witnesses change. In Japanese there is a term for such a recognition.
It is called mono no awar, which
translates as the reality of impermanent things.
Recognizing
and accepting the fact of change is a step toward awakening.